Over the last 2yrs I've made some major changes in my life - I left a 30yr+ marriage, a beautiful 5-bed house and a financially secure life. Today, I'm a professional house sitter. Very different, and totally worth it to be free of a cage that was so destructive for me. As I stretched my wings, I found I was still tethered to a number of bad experiences, times when people such as my father and my husband had made me feel worthless and incapable. Even though I'd escaped the environment, I had only to think back to these incidents and the feelings would rush back in and swamp me. It felt as if it was happening all over again. No matter how much I looked forward, the past was dragging me back. I was totally at a loss as to how to move on if I couldn’t break through these powerful and debilitating memories. Then Sam suggested Dambusters! It drew on memories and feelings, some of which I'd completely forgotten. It was emotional and confronting, but SO powerful. The next day, when I woke up and tried to think back to those incidents, there'd been a huge shift. There were no longer any emotional black holes to suck me back to my past. These incidents were just parts of a story. No matter how I tried, I couldn’t recreate the horrific feelings I had endured for so long. I was free to fly at last. It may sound dramatic, but it really did change my life. Sam is a very special person, as she understands what her clients need and can guide them through the tough days into the future. If you feel that you are stuck in a bad place then talking to Sam could be the best thing you'll ever do.
Pam Martin, Browns Bay, New Zealand